Why Self-Esteem is so Important
Low self-esteem is the underlying issue to most if not all
of problematic areas we all have to deal with at some time
Self-esteem covers Empowerment,
Self-worth, Confidence and does not stem from the ego.
It is a simple and pure realisation of our right to be here,
being who and what we are by accepting our individuality.
From birth and throughout life, self-esteem gets knocked and
bruised. Trying to fit in, trying to please and trying to
be what is called "Normal" are all ways self-esteem
can gradually seem to diminish. Yet self-esteem never dies,
it always remains the same that is why negative issues appear
in our lives. They are the inner conflict we experience as
we deny our individuality and acceptance of who we are. In
other words our Self-Esteem.
The Self-Esteem/ Confidence Programme
Encourages: Feelings of Value, Love
and Appreciation of yourself.
Provides: Empowerment to bring about any changes necessary
for a happier more successful life
Builds: Your Confidence and Self-Worth
Releases: the "Victim Role" so commonly present
when low self-esteem is an issue.
Relieves: Negative, Problematic areas that have been adopted.
Self-esteem is one of the most treasured
gifts we have in life.
It never relates to any egotistical or negative behaviour
(those appear from low self-esteem)
Self-esteem is something we are all born with,
it is part of our individuality, when we try to deny it, negative
Often we adopt behaviours as a way of being loved and accepted.
Through today's various medias we are bombard with idealistic
lifestyles, giving the impression that this is the way we
should behave, act or react in order to be accepted, to have
friends and to be successful. We are told how to behave, think
and feel. The media often ridicule those who appear to be
"Outside The Norm." Yet
again confirming it is unsafe to be anything other than
Low self esteem can begin from childhood, through upbringing,
environment etc. By denying who we are we encourage feelings
of "Not deserving"
or "Not being
good enough" (a
couple of examples) which only strengthens an already present
low self esteem. Consequently we can then experience some
of the following: Weight issues, addictions, relationship
problems, failure, stress etc.